Saturday, February 27, 2016

Was Life Better in the Old Days?

In a word, no. It was just different.

The site of the first crocus in late winter fills me with the same gladness no matter the time or place. The crocus reminds us all that the harsh realities of winter will soon be gone. We may receive another snow or two but none will last.


There's chatter in the press that:

"Men are four times as likely to kill themselves as women. What has gone wrong?"

I have no idea how scientific these claims are, only that they make good headlines and are the basis of Donald Trump's campaign of fear and loathing.

The old chestnut about the good old days has been around for a long time. Hard to say if it ever has been true. I look at the big picture and accept today's reliability of the internal combustion engine, the general availability of electricity, chemicals and pharmaceutical products, and just admit to myself that things aren't so bad. Yes, we are always one atom bomb or incurable virus away from armageddon. Yes, the stresses of today's world are made all too true by our media and their reporting on presidential candidates who are overly self-involved, often vain and selfish. This all can't take away from the fact that I saw my first crocus today while out walking my dog. Those two pleasures have been true and much more valuable to me, whether they have occurred while I was growing up in the suburbs or now while living in an outer borough of New York City.

I can't fix stupid but I can enjoy life's subtle pleasures.

Sunday, February 21, 2016

Remembrances of Ridgewood in the 1960s

Bill Nelson, Class of 1974:

This computer screen has brought me back to yesterday
To a place I left behind so long ago
All the faces places memories that I hold dear
Are here again for me to come back to know

Oh Ridgewood days will never leave my memory
Mount Carmel Somerville and Ridgewood High
And once again my heart has come to see
What really made one be a Ridgewood guy

But Time has always been an enemy and a friend
It waits for no one and it never will
We are all given only so much we can spend
Before we have to walk over that eternal hill

So heres to all you people who have shared time with me
and to those who have left us now behind
I will always remember back when we were free
And Forever you all will stay Gentle on my mind

Thursday, February 18, 2016

Charitable Giving and the Fabric of America

No question that our country's long held belief in giving time and money to charities is part of the fabric of these United States.

I can recall many examples, which I saw and was involved with at a young age, including my parents participation in the PTA (Parent Teachers Association), the Boy Scouts, the Upper Ridgewood Community Church, and our elementary school's Safety Patrol.

It was not out of the ordinary to be associated with altruistic and community-based organizations during my youth. Philanthropy was not a word we thought much upon while we were doing our civic duties.  Though in fact, these efforts were crucial in making Ridgewood such a special place for children and adults to have grown up and raised families.

Now I must remind you all that many remarkable things have come about in our time, as well as the times we spent in Ridgewood, through the aggregation of our dispersed efforts towards charitable giving.

Everyone of the Distinguished Alumni we are honoring on March 10th 2016 have held a strong belief in the wisdom of villages like Ridgewood having common goals. These Distinguished individuals, living and dead, maintained a responsible stance regarding the use of common sense towards advancing public goals. With great pride I can report our Alumni Association will justifiably honor these most ethical individuals with portraits in the main lobby of Ridgewood High School.

My wish now is that the better angels of our nature will prompt vigorous support of the collective works of our Distinguished Alumni. Please contribute by attending the Ridgewood High School Distinguished Alumni Awards ceremony on March 10th 2016 or making a generous donation to the RHS Alumni Association.

If you would like to make a donation to support this effort or the general fund, please do so online at rhsalumniassociation.org.





Saturday, February 13, 2016

RHS Distinguished Alumni


Stephanie Jones will be accompanied by her Dad, Nathaniel Jones, a retired judge with the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Sixth Circuit, as she accepts an award, along with 4 others, on March 10th for being RHS Distinguished Alumni. If you haven't been back to RHS in a while there is a spot near the front doors where pictures hang of the previous winners. Stephanie and the newest members of this cohort will be honored with a dinner at the Park West Loft in Ridgewood beginning at 7PM.
Tickets are available at http://www.rhsalumniassociation.org
 
The rest of the honorees:
Steven C. Mannion, Class of 1986
Kimberly Parsons Daub, Class of 1985
Sybil Space Gibson, Class of 1940
Elizabeth Hawes, Class of 1921